The so-called self-discipline is an important principle to solve the pain of life with a positive and proactive attitude, which mainly includes four aspects: delaying gratification, taking responsibility, respecting the truth, and maintaining balance. -- M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled

It is said that everyone needs a mirror so that they can often look at themselves and know what they are.But self-aware people don't need to look in the mirror at all; What you don't know is useless when you look in the mirror.

In a society where you look at me and I look at you, being right is nothing more than being similar to others.

Lu Yao wrote in "Ordinary World" : life can not wait for others to arrange, you have to fight and struggle; And no matter the result is happy or sad, but you can be comforted by the fact that you have never lived in this world in vain. With this realization, you will value life, not cynicism; At the same time, it will also inject a strong inner strength into people.

Those who have no time to say the export of deep love, quietly say to the wind, you should be happy, I will accompany you here.

I saw a question today that said:"Is brief companionship a gift or a punishment?"The next reply impressed me:"If you are not greedy, you are a gift; if you still expect, you are a punishment."

No matter how good Liu Bei is, no matter how good Cao Cao is, he has close friends. Don't care about other people's evaluation of you, do your own thing, go your own way, don't live in the eyes of others.

Time decides who you meet in lifeYour heart determines who you want in your lifeAnd your actions will determine who gets to stay-- Thoreau, Walden Pond

"What the years owe is always those who have a good memory and just remember the past."

Reading to the end is to make us more tolerant to understand how complex the world is.